Blog Post 3: Self Hatred

       As a human we feel emotions like sadness, anger, and some other negative emotions that is normal to a person. They say even the happiest person in the world feels sad to. There is a time that i really hate my self, the time that i want to commit suicide because of my problems and mistakes in life. At that time i always bring my self down and realizing that Im the one who is making my mistake. Yes it is true i keep bringing my self down and hurting my self because of what I've done. Maybe that was the past, but know what are the reasons why we hate our selves? Is it normal or what? Im always wondering about this when i remember those things i do back then. Those emo and sad days .

                   What is the main reason why we hate ourselves? Some people are very confident on what there doing, some don't. We hate our selves because we dislike something that is within us. When i asked you, Give me a reason why you hate yourselves? You'll probably give me an specific answers like: my physical appearance, my brain etc... Sometimes the negative parts of us is more easier to explain to people but hard to say.

     Now i found this very informative article called "When you don't like yourself" By Alex likerman. Based on the article the author mentioned about the on what part of our selves we dislike. He said that people that filled with self loathing is always telling about what they dislike about them selves. A part of our selves that we dislike is commonly the parts that we hate that's why we feel some bad traits about our selves.

 What are the source of self loathing? Based on the article one reason why we hate ourselves is support. Lack of support of parents or friends it was mentioned that lack of support can lead to a self loathing it because of sometimes they don't know what to do to them selves they need suggestions and some advice. For example people don't support or praise you on what you are doing, basically that is the reason to hate your self because you feel that your not good to it.

All of us has a negative or ugly part of our selves. We usually say things that we hate to our life those things like our body parts. I think hating our selves is not good to our life it can't help anything about our problems. Self loathing based on some research can lead to suicide because they don't have some believe to their selves.